First: Form the habit of interesting yourself in other people; and make it your business to find their good qualities and speak of them in terms of praise.
Second: Develop the ability to speak with force and conviction, both in your ordinary conversational tones and before public gatherings, where you must use more volume.
Third: Clothes yourself in a style that is becoming to your physical build and the work in which you are engaged.
Fourth: Develop a positive character, through the aid of the formula outlined in this lesson.
Fifth: Learn how to shake hands so that you express warmth of feeling and enthusiasm through this form of greeting.
Sixth: Attract the people to you by first :attracting yourself” to them.
Seventh: Remember that your only limitation, within reason, is the one which YOU set up in YOUR OWN mind.
For example, I do my banking here in Thailand with KTB, not because it’s the closest, but because the tellers, cashiers, and even people working the door are unbelievably charismatic.
I always eat pizza at a restaurant called wine connection, not only because the pizza is delicious, but because the waiters and waitresses are amazing with service.
The people who I engage with throughout my daily life I’m attracted to because their personalities, character, and charisma is rare.