Back in 2008, I decided to team up with my best friend and moved into a gorgeous apartment on the edge of Las Vegas near the Air Force base. My friend was fresh out of the Navy and I was doing work-study and a summer course back at the College of Southern Nevada. In the first month or so, he was normally around for the most part. I started to become increasingly involved in a long-distance relationship with a girl from Japan, and he stated that’s when I began to change. It was hard to get any kind of responsibility out of him because he paid things late and never did chores around the house. After two months, he was rarely home. He would play beer-pong every night with a bunch of “loser;” and one night in August changed our relationship forever. Apparently some escorts were at a beer-pong outing one evening and he ended up being so intoxicated that he went back with them to their place. His money, wallet, credit cards and everything was gone. He couldn’t pay the monthly bill on his six-week fresh Ford Mustang and they came to repossess it the next day. I saw him go from an amazing achievement, to an unbelievable disaster in the matter of weeks.
Welcome to the University of Hard Knocks.
Yes, both him and I got evicted and I ended up moving back home with my mother. The friendship was in turmoil, then got completely destroyed during the month of September after an argument over lies. S*** happens.
However, in saying all of that, I took 100% responsibility for everything that had happened. People would point fingers and say, “well, Satomi, from Japan, visited and sent the relationship between you and Andre into a complete whirlwind.” No, Andre sent himself and only himself into a complete whirlwind after the “escort” disaster. Satomi opened the door within my mind to travel abroad, as she was put in my life to do so.
I’m challenging all of you to do the same thing. Take the loss. Take the L.
Today is graduation day! From this day forward, choose to be 100 percent responsible for your life. Eliminate all of your excuses. Embrace the fact that you are freed by your choices, as long as you assume personal responsibility for them.
It’s time to make the choice to take control.
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