It’s been a very turbulent year — people (what I would call friends in the past) coming and going. Some of this could be unbearable for most, but I built up a fortified wall in front of my feelings, telling myself that all of these so-called “friends” are here to fulfill a purpose. Remember what I said a long time ago: life-time, life-giving, and purposeful relationships. People are categorized into these three areas.
Best Friends Turned Enemy
I don’t believe it was so much her getting a boyfriend, but me having a life-changing experience happen on the other end just 3 weeks after. My life went from almost investing and staying in Thailand long-term, to almost booking a trip to Honduras or Costa Rica after a racially implicit event in my workplace and was expunged from teaching at a company. Yes, if she was my best friend Andre, we would be able to talk it out, make amends, and just move on with our friendship. With her there was possible miscommunication, but I also saw danger — danger that could’ve bloomed if I had gone to America. So, I cancelled the trip, and three weeks later my job was on the line. My hands were incredulously on my head and I was being criticized by an individual who shouldn’t be criticizing anyone, given the circumstances of him being in Thailand.
Almost one month later, new condo, five job opportunities, six projects and so many other things….now I understand WHY I didn’t go to America.
Purposeful Relationship Turned Chaos
I met someone by the name of Zern who I thought had the same energy as I. I seriously thought that she was me in a completely different form. However, after two weeks, a nose-dive happened. The energy between us changed and then the complaints were ON 100% (barely anything coming from my kisser). This lead to her going out with a friend to one of the most notorious areas in all of Asia where drunk, poor backpackers go to have sex. That was THE END.
The Student That Couldn’t Take It
The last episode comes from an individual who I catapulted into the University of Sydney. After completion of her Masters Degree, she came back (just recently) to Thailand. Because I’m going through a very pivotal stage in my life, I need her to help me with translations from English-to-Thai. Granted, I helped her with grammatical structures the past 1.5 years. She helped me, and then I asked her for a very important favor. Before I continue, she is a doctor. Now, let’s get back into this…..I needed assistance taking some luggage and boxes to my new condo.
After that message, she was gone!
Moral of these stories…..you’re the only person who can be rescue 911.