Interviewee #34 – Jazz Pitt on Overcoming Depression, Exile, & Fulfilling Her Purpose

Jazz, who was the third of the three to really “jack me up,” helped me so much. It was a three day process when I went through the depths of hell to figure out what was actually wrong with me. After Richard came Isabel, followed by Jazz — and boy — did she have a story! This is going to hit home for a lot of people dealing with anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts. Here it is!

Get in touch with Jazz Pitt on overcoming depression, exile and fulfilling purpose

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Things we discussed:

  • Introduction given by Jazz Pitt and how she started it all?
  • Relationships and family exile.
  • Feeling of abandonment.
  • Mental breakdown and depression.
  • Situation after all feelings had subsided.
  • Unhappy childhood and how memories continued creeping into her present life.
  • Zombie state of depression.
  • Keys to overcome depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts.
  • How she feels looking back on her past.
  • The importance of lifelong learning.
  • The power of love.
  • Sharing about the power of perceptions by other people and the importance of choosing.

Thank you for listening!

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  1. Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/thearseniobuckshow/
  2. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thearseniobuckshow/?hl=en
  3. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIzp4EdbJVMhhSnq_0u4ntA
  4. Podcasts: https://www.spreaker.com/user/thearseniobuckshow, https://open.spotify.com/show/7hdzplWx6xB8mhwDJYiP6f, https://www.buzzsprout.com/165390
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  6. Twitter: https://twitter.com/arseniobuckshow?lang=en

How To Deal With Trolls: Ignorant Foreigners In Thailand Backing Racism

Wow, I was getting ready and in the routine this morning when I saw a YouTube comment.  My jaw-dropped, one of my eyes squinted, and then I bursted out laughing.

If only I could’ve used that comment down below to show you the lunacy of this specific individual (likely a 50+ year-old sex/wife tourist residing in Thailand), it would’ve made for a some great comedy.

I was called a MISOGYNIST.

LOL!

Wait, let me get my breath back.

Ummmm, why would I hate women?  Huh?

Why would I hate Thai women? Women who I thought were remarkably open-minded the first time I met them back in 2012 until I saw their true nature in 2013?

How could you even back the fact that Thai women are blatantly and openly racist towards all colored men, especially black?

I was blown away at this individuals lack of empathy, empathic listening, and autobiographical response to a situation.  He took everything literally and got very defensive about something I said two years ago? However, no way would he ever comment on my podcasts today.  So, what’s the problem? What’s bothering this particular individual and what has irked him? He has an extreme amount of intolerance and doesn’t want to stand on my side of the line, so I’m guessing he too, is a sex/wife tourist who’s of the half-century mark and has a Thai wife who’s half his age.

I have the upmost compassion for individuals like this, but it’s time to face what isn’t working. Here’s my rant in the podcast down below.

https://www.spreaker.com/user/thearseniobuckshow/how-to-deal-with-trolls-ignorant-foreign_1

New Book Series! Gary Vee’s ‘Crushing It’ + Chapter 1: The Path Is Yours

First time I saw Gary Vee was in a Tony Robbins video.  Like a lot of other people; you either love him or hate him (well, hate it too strong of a word – so maybe dislike).  The next time I saw one of his videos was when his opening intro went something like, “the man holding the camera said it was a rough day…..I don’t give a _________.”

From then on…I was sold.  The marketing strategies, expertise in terms of social media, and how to build a brand catapulted me to great heights.  When my podcast got quiet, I realized that patience and constant content creating would overcome the woes.

The Path Is Yours

While I was downloading a sample of this book, I was listening to a very-angry-45-year-old-male on a news channel rant at Gary about “why” social media has destroyed the world.  I laughed.  The comments in support of Gary were wonderful: “this guy is completely lost and out of touch with reality.”  Yes, the Gen B’s and even what I’m dealing with at my current place of work, are lacking adaptability.  For example, English conversation, which is something most non-native English speaking countries don’t give, is lacking in Thailand.  I developed a curriculum that would amass millions upon millions of baht.  However, there was a change in administration, and here came a out-of-touch-with-the-world Brit who criticized the curriculum, stating that it’s not “academic.”  Oh, right…the academics that universities are spewing out to B.A. business students who are ineffective in the world of business – but they have made more money in six months listening to Gary Vee compared to the 4 years in school and 6 years after.  Hmmmm…

So then with two shops closing and a huge decrease in work, I’m smiling, knowing the emergence of the Chinese market will land me a job that will never go away while this business will be “out-of-business.”

News outlets, and the people not willing to acclimate around the world, know that if you don’t….the world will continue moving on – whether you like it or not.  Social media and the wondrous internet is here to stay.  If these Gen B babies knew what was to come in the next ten years, they would put tin foil on their desks and jars of urine would be scattered all around them (Hassan joke).

Building a personal brand is an important aspect….and more importantly, if you’re going to become an influencer (or what to), this is imperative.  Gary Vee has some insane stats in his book….

  • YouTube’s daily viewership is closing in on TV’s 1.25 billion hours per day, as television viewership falls every year.

  • One in every five minutes spent on mobile is spent on Facebook’s apps and services.

  • Every minute, 65,900 videos and photos are posted on Instagram.

  • Over 3 billion snaps are created each day on Snapchat, where over 60 percent of ads are watched with the audio on.

If you look at the likes of Logan Paul and Lilly Singh, they’re on the top of the grossing list, making tons by of course monetization.  Look at Instagram.  Look how many women are on there posing half-naked.  Take a good count and just imagine how much they’re making by wearing or branding other people’s companies?

Although YouTube is a crazy market to break into, look how many views the channel by the name of “Top 5’s” is getting.  He’s literally creating videos about top 5 everything around the world, and regardless of the dislikes that pour in, he’s making loads of money.  I’m kind of kicking myself in the ass because back in 2012, I created a blog about my travels to Thailand (here), Japan, and Hawaii.  Unfortunately I stopped….little did I know that could’ve expanded into a massive money-maker.  Know that the opportunity is everywhere around you.

I’m an entrepreneur who built a $150 million media company in part because of my personal brand, which I developed by first creating valuable content that grew my influence.  That’s one way to crush it.  By all means, though, go ahead and make money over time by running ads, for example by selling ad space to a candy bar company.  As your star rises, you could get paid $10k for placing a candy bar on your table while you work.  But for God’s sake, don’t stop there.  That’s where you start.  Don’t leave money on the table because you don’t realize how much bigger you can get.  How big? The internet is an entrepreneur’s oyster, and you can use its pearly platforms to build a personal brand so powerful that the world is not only willing to pay you for your products or services or to promote other people’s products and services, but also it might even be willing to pay you to just be you.  To me, that is when you’ve become a true influencer.  At its heigh, influencer marketing is reality TV 2.0. I want you to think of yourself as tomorrow’s newest star.

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Sensitivity Breeds Perpetuity

I normally walk over a bridge to go home everyday — a pedestrian bridge.  When I get to the top of this particular bridge, normally there’s someone there sitting on the pavement — holding their hands to their face with a cup in front of them: “I need money.”  On some days, there’s an older lady there with what it seems to be a daughter/granddaughter.  These are the things that really upset me because those children don’t deserve to be included in the chaos.

Homeless.

A word and one of the most controversial topics.  I believe there are different degrees of homelessness.  We can’t compare homeless Americans to homeless Africans or Indians for the sake of governments.  In America, homeless people can get shelter every evening, meals, clothing and other things; in Africa, it’s a free-for-all.  Every man for themselves.

There was an interesting topic on a recent Ted video that sparked a debate (or what I thought was one) from a “therapist” (whatever that means).  A woman told me, “how about some sensitivity?”

Ok, I’m sensitive.

Now what?

Because of a collective and conjunction of bad choices, you’ve landed yourself on the streets.  I will jump in the defence of foster children, which is an incredibly detestable story.  However, everyone has different stories.  I’m not talking about homelessness in the likes of Somalia, India, Bangladesh and other places…..I’m talking about America.  Owning up and taking 100% responsibility for being in your position is the first thing you need to do.  This man on a Ted video said, “we should build homes for all homeless people.”  But, if you put a homeless person into a gorgeous home with a homeless mindset, the individual will still perpetuate a homeless lifestyle because he too, still has the homeless mindset.

In order to change the way someone is….you have to first change the mind.  The paradigm.  The habits.  I remember Charles Barkley made fun of Michael Jordan on an interview one-time — calling him “cheap.”  Michael Jordan didn’t give money to a homeless person.  Oprah Winfrey went on to comment, “well, I do agree because to a certain degree…you’re literally prolonging the hell with the individual.  If you give them money, they will believe that they don’t have to do anything.”

For example, I tried giving a homeless person food on a pedestrian bridge in Thailand — he denied it.  Yes, he denied food. The most quintessential gesture amongst homeless people here in Thailand.  Later, someone dropped some coins in the cup and he thanked them.

What does that tell you? Yes, the arguments such as “only some people deny this.  What about people in this country, and that country.  You’re not very sympathetic.  You’re not compassionate.”  Welcome to the University of Hard Knocks.  You’re homeless and you want other people to give you…..money.  Not food? “Only some people.”  I’ve heard that excuse already.  What if I go to a homeless person and give them….let’s say a book? Will he keep it?  Nope.  Although the book has everything he needs to get out of his rut — he denies that, too.

Napoleon Hill once took a man downstairs in his shop, unveiled a mirror after swiping away at the blanket that was covering it, pointed in the mirror and said, “that’s the only man that can help you.”

If I’m sensitive about the homelessness phenomenon in America, it won’t change the mind of homeless people.  One of my friend’s uncles said, “Arsenio, don’t make fun of homeless people.  They are quitters.”  Giving them homes will do what for them?  Changing their mind, however, can change their reality and the way they perceive it to be.  Clothe them, bathe them, do as you wish….but until the mind is changed, you’re perpetuating a global problem.